I've recently moved in with my partner and recently his child's mother has started asking us to have him every Weekend, I wouldn't mind if I got a night out every once in a while but I don't because he always takes shifts even though he knows that we have him over night and I'm always the one left babysitting his son which means I can't go out with my friends anymore. I planned a night out tonight and he told me he hopes I'm not going on a full night out because I'll have to have his son tomorrow while he works again. Anytime we have his son and he has it off he just sits on his ass playing PlayStation or watching his TV programs even if we arrange to take his son somewhere he's too lazy to get off his ass which means the child is sat in our house for 2-3 days. I don't know if I'm over reacting like he says or if he needs to get his priorities sorted!