If I'm about to orgasm, I can feel it. I can't make it come any faster or any slower. It i stop touching myself, I have to reposition and it takes me like 5 minutes longer to finish. That's the only way I can slow it down. Can you guys cum on command?? I've read a lot of erotic stories that are like "don't cum without permission" and then he gives her permission to cum and she immediately does. Am I the only one who can't control it???