I'm a SAHM for now, I worked last year but I am about to file my taxe. We just moved and my husband was like oh you can use your taxes to buy new living room furniture he literally pays all the bills and anything else even when i was working... my thing is I don't want to buy the furniture i want to purchase new kitchen cabinets and get the yard done are yard literally looks like a mud slide also I wanted to surprise him with a round trip flight back to his country to see his family (he is from Batman Turkey) and a round trip flight will cost between 2500 and 3500.  So how can I tell him no about the furniture without mentioning the trip...