I met this guy, he insisted on having a date so we did and he even met my mom because he wanted to. I was honestly not taking it fast or serious because I didn't want to get attached. Yesterday out of nowhere, he just texts me and says that "I'm pressuring him into a relationship". I admit that I did that with my last dates so I just didn't do it with this one and went with the flow and not pressured him or even mention it, or got clingy... how does he come and say that "I want a relationship" when he was the one that wanted it at first; I told him I wanted to know him first. I'm just sad and confused and he was a cool guy but I don't care anymore... isn't ironic? The only guy I never even talked about something serious comes to tell me this. Maybe it was an excuse 🙎🏻🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️