I just found out I hate kissing. Am I broken?

Question

I've never really been in a relationship, and I just want my second date with a guy I met online. He's very nice and funny, but we had our first kiss earlier today, one of several, and I found that I disliked it very much. Like a peck on the lips fine. Anything past that makes me feel like I'm massaging a wet sponge with my face.

He didn't seem happy when I told him to stop, but he backed off when I asked. I'm more confused than anything. Is this normal or am I more broken than I think I am?

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Some people just don't like it, personally it makes me uncomfortable but with my current boyfriend I'm alot more okay with it. If you don't like that's fine, nothing wrong with you. You might just haven't found a person you actually like kissing yet, most people aren't that good at it 😂

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You may not like kissing at all or you may not like kissing him. If you're fairly inexperienced then in time you may find a person you enjoy kissing with, or someone who doesn't seem bothered by not kissing.

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I hate it too. The thought of swapping and tasting someone else's saliva makes ke cringe. But I have little experience and healthy anxiety so that could be what's making me hate it. Idk.

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If you really dont like kissing that totally fine and theres nothing wrong with you. But maybe hes just a horrible kisser. Ive kissed guys before that made it feel like that and its just gross and other guys its enjoyable. Also if you dont have those kind of feelings for the guy it wont feel very good. So maybe its that.

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Girl I was on the same boat as you. With my first kiss!!! I was like, "really? That's what people are talking about? "how amazing kissing is?!" Ugh. No. It's not!! I don't like it!!!" I figure out I didnt like it because I didn't like him!! When I had a boyfriend I liked it, cause I liked him. It was also the same feeling I had towards sex too AND now I love sex with the person I like!! 😊 I guess you just kissed you frog!!

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My bf hates making out also. He did it a couple times with me to please me but it does nothing for him and it thinks its really gross. So we just do peck kisses.

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Me and my boy friend have only naked out like 10-20 since we've been together and we've been together for 4 years. We just don't enjoy it but sometimes we do not very offen tho. I wouldn't worry about it. Me and my boy friend met online also and are still going strong with a little gril!!

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You'll find someone that it doesn't seem so bad with. Kissing is super weird. I never felt like I was doing it right and with some people it just felt wrong and ew. But then I've been with others that I loved kissing like all the time!

I just found out I hate kissing. Am I broken?

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