No one around during L&D

OK my child's father won't be around when I give birth on account of the fact he's an ass and my family says they want to be there when I give birth but I don't want them there don't get me wrong so far they've been supportive But they've also said things that I find unforgivable since I told them I was pregnant and I'm not sure if I'm being unreasonable? Or if I'm right for standing by what I feel?