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Okay hi so I'm 16 years old and I've never had sex or even put a finger inside myself 🤕 my boyfriend has rubbed me before but he really wants to finger me and I don't want to make him mad and not let him but I've tried it before and it really hurts. What should I do ? I need a way to try it so I can let him. He doesn't have a problem with it or anything because he knows that he's going to be able to in the future but I still want to make him happy. So how did you do it your first time ? Any suggestions ? Pls help 😕

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The fact that you're saying you want to do this out of fear of possible angering him tells me that you aren't truly ready. You need to wait until you want to do something with a guy that loves you. Not a guy you're afraid of angering. Nine times out of ten he'll dump you either way so don't allow him to take your innocence.

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You don't want to make him mad? He would get mad if you wouldn't let him finger you? Girl, you need to reevaluate this boy. This should tell you he is more worried about getting off than making you feel comfortable in a situation. YOUR body YOUR terms.

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First and foremost, if you are not comfortable with doing this, you have no obligation to. Your comfort takes priority over his wants. Second, if you truly want to figure this out, take it slow, start with one finger and work your way up. Lubrication is important, so make sure you use something like lube.

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