rant "announcing too early" nothing wrong with it

Mina
I just gotta say lately I've been seeing people criticizing others for announcing their pregnancies "too early" and I get told all the time "next time you get pregnant wait until your second trimester to announce" but why? What business is it of yours to tell anyone that they "need" to wait to announce their joy? If i do get pregnant again I'll announce when I feel like announcing and if anyone has a problem with it then move on. I did get a lot of back lash after I lost my baby people saying "oh I'm surprised you announced so early" ummm maybe because every child deserves the love and happiness that comes with others knowing....maybe because I waited 5 YEARS for it to happen....maybe because I felt like it!....either way no one has any right to tell someone when to announce something so exciting, And I get it some people want to wait to make sure nothing goes wrong and that's perfectly fine that's your decision but I love sharing good news and if something does happen again at least the baby will have felt the same amount of love as any of my other pregnancies. So before you tell anyone "oh don't announce until your second trimester" jut remember you don't always know their story and making them feel bad for being excited about it just makes you an asshole....excuse the language but if it's true I gotta say it.  Rant over 😊
####sorry everyone I didn't realize I posted it as anonymous! Lol