emotional help

Sarah
Some background... I have 2 step daughters that are now 17 and 21.   They were very difficult teenagers!   We got pregnant and thankfully had a boy!  My husband was thrilled! He's 13 months now.   I just got the results from our harmony test last Friday and we're having a girl this time.   I cried for 2 days, my husband is disappointed because we really wanted another boy.  I know it'll be different because she's "mine" and not a step kid by I'm so depressed that it's a girl.  I feel very disconnected from this pregnancy all of a sudden.  Any advice to get over it and be excited about my baby girl?   Thanks