dating 😞😞

So I have the to choose between 2 boys 
Boy 1 - 20years old went all through school together were each other's prom date very shy reserved not money wise lives close to me total oppoisits in personality but I like him in a way
Boy 2- 26years old lives a bit further away drives has a good job is money smart exact same interests makes me laugh out going funny bold totally clicks with me only known him a few months tho 
I am in a very good job I'm almost 20 I want someone who works equally as hard as me I drive too I want to do fun things this year like travel and stuff I like someone who takes control in a non nasty way I am not a bossy in charge person so I need to be with a person who takes charge and is outgoing 
How do I let the other know pls help a girl outÂ