I feel like I'm failing as a mom. My baby won't take a pacifier or a bottle. She sleeps with me cuz that's the only way she will. She also comfort nurses and most of the time only wants me. People lecture me all the time about some of these things or all of them at once. I feel like i did eveything wrong. She's 4 months old now and a very happy baby. I just feel like I've screwed myself and her up by not trying harder and those things. Idk...guess I'm just looking for kind words