So today my dr checked to see if I was dialated and omg it hurt so bad!! im sure its uncomfortable but this like really hurt like I felt like I shoulda been bleeding after.. I wasnt, but is that normal ? all day after ive had cramps and the girl at the front desk told me she was prob "scraping your membranes" to get it going, then I was kinda pissed.. they wanna induce me in the next 2 weeks so I was tHinking about refuaing to be checked (cause they wanna check again friday) but I just don't see the point if they are inducing. This is my first baby so I dont know what to think so if anyone has any knowledge or advise please help me lol :)