Please stop comparing

Spec
One thing that breaks my heart every time is when people compare their miscarriage stories. 
Too many times have women said to me 'Your miscarriage was worse because .....'  
The reasons range from how long we were trying, how far we were into our pregnancy, how long we knew we were pregnant etc.  
Please stop doing this. A miscarriage is a miscarriage. It doesn't matter if your pregnancy wasn't planned, or if you didn't know you were pregnant. 
It is still a horrible, horrible experience. 
With miscarriage there is no better/worse. 
Ladies, please don't compare your experience to other people. We all have the right to grieve regardless of our story.