My husband and I were excited to plan a gender reveal for us and our close family.  Only thing is that my family has always welcomed him with open and loving arms, and his family has not done the same for me.  It's bad enough I tolerate his mother, but now his cousins and aunts and uncles have added to the drama.  Over the last year his uncles family has called me a liar, talked bad about me to his mom, and said we were jealous because they could get pregnant and we couldn't.  Needless to say, I don't have room for people like that in my life.  I have never done anything to them and have only supported my husband.  It's hard to deal with those kind of people because I'm not used to that.  My family is not mean spirited to others..