RANT! (Not that long)

I found out the gender of my baby today and told my boyfriend's mom but told her not to tell anyone especially the father because I wanted to also our first kid together so a big deal for me(he didnt get to go to the appointment because of work) I recorded the whole thing for him and got a card and everything when I called him to see where he was hes like what are we having I said I tell you when I see you and he like oh I already know my mom told me and when I told him I was upset and crying about it he just laughed at me and was why are you upset it's not a big deal like really???