sex drive

Any wives out there have a higher sex drive than their husbands??? I get so frustrated because I feel like I have to initiate 99.9% of the time, and it feels like there is no spontaneity to our sex life. I get so mad and get to the point where I just don't even want to be touched by him, cause I just feel so undesired and unwanted. He even admits that he's just lazy. I'm your wife!  Stop being lazy and take me already!