My mans short and was fit BUT now he is fat!

So when i first met my man 2 years ago he was very fit.. we talked for ages on the phone then when we met in person he had boots on which gave him another inch of height. Well initially it took me back that he was short. But we hit it off and had a fantastic date.

He was also so fit and sexy with a six pack.

I thought i could handle him being shorter than me. As looks arnt everything

He is a very decent man.. good job.. responsible.. we get along well.. we have had some trust issues here and there.

BUT now he is fat!

He has gained so much weight he has man boobs.

I nearly left him a few months ago because of his weight.

He has since dropped a bit but i still look at him with some disgust.

I have seen photos of his past and he has a tendency to gain weight easily.

He says he wants to get fit again.

But im worried im turned off him. His hight was one thing but now he is overweight!

Do u think its petty?

Im worried im superficial.

And im worried about losing a great guy if i leave... to find a more attractive man that could let me down in other ways...