weight issues in relationship
My boyfriend and I love each other very much. He is 120 pounds and I am 180 pounds, for the most part it doesn't effect the relationship in the slightest. I'm in the process of losing weight and trying to be healthier, and I see a nurionist. Due to her busy schedule and work hours I can't see her right now. My boyfriend and I had this conversation at dinner a few days ago.
Him: hey are you going to see the nutritionist
Me: I can't, her schedule is full and so is mine
Him: yeah, full of fat people trying to lose weight
Silence before he immediently began to apoglize.
Me:if you have something about my weight just ducking say it, but that was fucked up.
He spend the rest of the night apologizing and explaining he loved me and he doesn't see me as fat he was just making a awful joke. I mentioned he doesn't understand what it's like to be bigger, but I have never said anything about his being smaller and it being hard for him to gain weight.
I love him, and I know he loves me. This just really hurt and I don't have anyone to talk to about it.
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