Family Help

So right now I am sad! I recently found out on Facebook my memes house was on fire today! My meme is the person who raised me from birth so pretty much she is my mom! But some of my family members are mad that they didn't call to say their house was on fire. My meme lives in Hubbard Iowa and the rest of my family lives in Texas! So I got mad and took it out on my family members. Do y'all think I was wrong for getting mad or was I right to defend my mom?