pubic hair!!

Okay so I'm 23 and all throughout middle school and high school, it seemed as if every girl was shaving herself completely down there. I did too because if I changed in front of friends with fuzz there they would say things like, " wow you should really take care of that". I was also afraid guys would be really turned off by any hair there. I hate shaving there. So much. I get razor burn no matter what. Then it gets prickly. So I stopped shaving and went completely natural. I was scared. But I LOVED it. Eventually I started trimming and liked that much better than shaving. Me and my boyfriend of 4 years broke up so I decided to try waxing and so I get it waxed into a neat triangle shape. When I talk to my friends about it though, they still seem to think girls should be clean shaven at all times. What do you gals do down there?