FTM... So Sammy sits really low cradled around my bladder and has tried to shift lower, which is incredibly painful as there is no space down there for him.

He's finally given up on going down further (he doesn't like being pushed or poked) but I don't know how to get him into a more comfortable position. My bladder literally hurts. Like I have an infection. (I don't I've been checked) he just so far down and constantly pressing on it that I'm at the point where I can't tell if I need to pee or if he's just laying on it.

Has anyone dealt with this and any suggestions? I work sitting down at a desk (call center) all day and getting up so often is messing me up at work.