arguing over foreplay??

Question

My fiancé and I just argued because I'm not so good at foreplay and apparently never do much to start us having sex. He's the first guy I've been with, and I've always doubted how good I am because of my lack of knowledge, and that just made me feel even worse. Any foreplay ideas? I need some serious help..

Answer

Give him a handjob. What I do, is rub my SO with my hand then I'll wrap my hand around his penis and go up and down slowly. When I go up I tighten my hand a little when I go down I loosen my grip a little. Then if I want to go down on him I will start kissing him(on the mouth and grind on his penis. Then I'll work my way down and I'll slowly put my mouth around him and play with the head a little with my tongue. Then I'll work my way down(or deeper into my mouth and go up and down and tilt my head up as I go up so that the head of his penis rub on the roof of my mouth. I sometimes change the tightness of my jaw too. Change the speed. Use your hand for what your mouth can't get to. If your mouth gets tired stop and use your hand to give your jaw a break. I always try to get him close to cumming and I know when he's close because he will grab my arm and pull so I keep going until he says he wants to be inside me.

Answer

You have to ask him what he likes and what spots to be touched at because everyone's different. It's how we learn to get better in bed!

arguing over foreplay??

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