Moving

Stormy • Stormy, 29 🌻 Divorced. Baby #1 born 4/19/18 after 19 months TTC with tubal insufficiency! Baby #2 born 01/26/21 after issues with ovulation and an incompetent cervix.
So hubby and I are considering moving out of our current state. We both have lived in Alabama our whole lives and would like to experience a different part of the country but we aren't sure where we'd like to go.
What part of the US would you recommend? 
Good neighborhoods? 
Cost of living? 
TIA for suggestions!!!