Anyone out there making their relationship work just for the kids and you stay with your spouse for it?    You hold all the problems and deal best you can but secretly you're fed up and only with him for the kids?  He wants to get back together . He's put me through a lot of hurt.    Cheating behaviors, he's not romantic or thoughtful ignores me sometimes,   We don't have conversations doesn't take me out but he wants to work on it. He had made progress but went right back to same old.   Would u stay for the kids?