So we were having a discussion about cheating. My male co-worker said " cheating happens, you just work through it". When did we just accept cheating???

I was told that since I am 32, I should understand this. WTF?? I am starting to think I shouldn't get married because I wouldn't put up with this shit. It makes me angry thinking about it.

How about do what you said in the marriage vows and not cheat. Any married people out there? Why the fuck do I have to accept cheating???