Did you/will you wait until marriage to have sex?

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I am waiting and immediately when people learn that they immediately think I am piously religious and in fact, I am not at all religious. It is just a personal decision.

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I didn't wait, an intact hymen never seemed like it should be a requirement for partnership to me. My virginity was taken from me at a young age though, and it was only after it was gone that I kept hearing references to its importance from my mother's religion. Every single time I felt ashamed and worthless until I finally educated myself and understood that I was worth far more than my virginity and that in the great scheme of things we have all kinds of 'first' experiences that no one cares about that are probably much more important than sex. Personally, I thought telling someone that I loved them was a far more weighty and important 'first' than the first time I obtained sexual satisfaction with a partner instead of alone. I'm glad I didn't wait. I found someone I was sexually compatible with and I knew that before I signed my marriage license. I was never crazy about the idea of marriage, it took us six years to actually go through with it despite being engaged for 3, that would have been an insanely long time to wait.

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I waited. Was it tough? Sure, but I'm so glad I did!

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I knew he and I were going to be married and that I loved him. I didn't wait. We did get married and I think it would have meant more on our wedding day if we had waited

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We wanted to wait, didn't work out so well lol.