This is my first post and...I actually feel a lot more comfortable asking this since these are all women! I'm a virgin but I don't have a boyfriend or anything right now. I really just wanna be prepared for the first time I do it.

Does it hurt a lot the first time?

What's a good position to start in?

What can I do to stay calm and not make it look like I'm hurting?

I don't normally shave and I'm scared guys won't like it...should I shave?

I just need to have some girl advice!! Thanks.