TMI Scared to have sex with boyfriend!? 21weeks💙

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I haven't let my boyfriend have sex with me since I was about 8-10 weeks pregnant! I still give him oral tho! Tomorrow I'm wanting to "surprise" him! BUT I'm worried about our baby boy! I don't want to rock or shake him while having sex ☹️ my boyfriend loves doggy style! I was just thinking of getting on top and doing the "cowgirl" position! Any helpful tips to keep it safe for baby??? PLEASE

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Having sex is more likely to rock the baby to sleep than hurt them. They're super protected and everything is okay unless your doctor puts you on pelvic rest for any reason. And trust me once you get further along doggy is about all that works haha. I'm 35w4d and that's all we do now. 😂

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Lay on your side ... Spoon position. Works great!

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I'm 17 weeks and we haven't had sex since we conceived 😂 I feel bad for hubby but I've been sick the entire time and sexy time has been the furthest thing from my mind!

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Sex during pregnancy is totally safe actually it is recommended! The baby is all the way up on your uterous witch is far up there, babies enjoy it because it Rocks them to sleep:) plus once you do go in labor it will make the labor process easier. have fun! but if you notice any spotting immediately contact a doctor. you should be fine:)

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You can have have as much sex as possible as long as your doctor didn't put you on pelvic rest

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Babies like the rocking motion from what I've heard. Obviously don't go crazy wild or anything but sex is perfectly safe during pregnancy.

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Sex won't hurt your baby. So unless your doctor put you on pelvic rest, sex is actually good for you, and I've heard it helps soften up your cervix

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Girl I'm 33 weeks and my SO still bends move in half and goes rough and my daughter normally sleeps after. She normally keeps me up at night with kicking me so sex is her lullaby lol

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I've been all over my boyfriend since we conceived, pretty much every day, sometimes several times a day. I'm going on 32 weeks and baby is completely safe in there.
 
My doctor actually said it's healthy and will not hurt the baby in any way. It usually rocks him to sleep.
 
I've got a bigger bump now at 32 weeks so cowgirl is getting harder to do, but we're still able to do it. We do doggy a lot as well, but I usually put a pillow under my belly since the motion makes me a little sick to my stomach if I don't.
 
We actually still do everything we did before I was pregnant, some positions are just a little adjusted though for my comfort. Whichever way makes you feel most comfortable, go for it.

TMI Scared to have sex with boyfriend!? 21weeks💙

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