Okay so I'm engaged. I've been with my SO for about 5 years going now. And well he's always had his best friend that I use to get upset because he didn't like my guy best friend so I distanced my self from him. And now we don't talk. Which I'm okay with I understand because my guy best friend liked me so I understood where he was coming from. I use to get upset at the fact that his best friend was a girl I mean she's one of the only people he still talks to from high school. So I ended up letting go of it. Because i felt bad that she was literally the only friend he still talked to. And it didn't bother me. But a couple of months ago I was out of town and she messaged him if they could hang out and they did. (She has a baby but the baby daddy isn't involved) the baby was there when they hung out so it didn't bother me. But now things are starting to bother me. She had a birthday party for her baby and he went without me. Didn't tell me about it. And I tried to let it go. But then I saw some messages and they really bugged me. They didn't bug me on his end but on her end it felt like she was trying to get with him. Would you ladies be bothered by this? I'm really worried now because I'm currently pregnant and due March. And I feel like she's trying to take him from me by using the friend card. Like now it bothers me that they are friends. I need advice what would you ladies do? I want to my SO I know. He didn't do anything but just the fact that he's hiding this bothers me. Like I'm sure he took the hint that she was hitting on him.
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