Right now I am the only one working. (His job is off season.) our daughter is 3 months old and I work 12 hours night shift normally about 3 days aweek. 

I ABSOLUTLY cannot stand the fact that he thinks he should sleep in till 10-1030 after I just worked a 12 1/2 hour shift all night long. Then it doesn't help that she wants to nurse more during the day so I am up multiple times to feed her during the day. I also wake up when he comes in to change her. Idk why he does that either, change her out in the living room! And then get up at 5 pm. 

Our daughter goes to bed at 8:30 and SLEEPS ALL NIGHT!! SOMETIMES will wake up at 1am but rarely. I come home, shower and feed her by 8:30 am and then have to force myself to stay awake because he refuses to get up. But he stays up all flipping night! That is not my problem! 

Last week I worked 53 1/2 hours because we could really use the money. I worked 8/10 nights doing 12 hour shifts with one 4 hour night thrown in. I asked him Friday night to clean the house for me, he said "can't you do that tomorrow". Um no. Although he did end up cleaning the house it still pissed me off he even said that. Yesterday morning I stayed after work an extra two hours because someone didn't show up. By the time I got home, showered and got ready to lay down it was already almost noon. My mom was over watching my daughter because my fiancé was helping my dad. And my daughter was screening bloody murder. Just because she wanted me, probably because I've just been working, sleeping, feeding her, and then handing her off 💔😭. So I laid back in the recliner and held her while my mom just made sure she didn't go anywhere. I didn't get to sleep till like 1pm. 

I ended up waking up around 8pm. (Keep in mind that was broken up cause I woke up to feed her) He also took a nap yesterday. 

Last night he decided to stay up till about 1. And he promised me today that he would go to church with me that starts at 11:30 (not even that early!) I tried waking him up at 10:30 and he told me that he isn't going, he is sleeping. Told me that he is catching up on his sleep like I did yesterday😡. I literally don't sleep! I haven't flipping slept in 3 months. 

Why is it so hard for him to understand . 

-he is an amazing dad. And he is awesome with  our daughter, I just get angry with the whole sleeping crap.