don't wanna cause a racial uproar

Mari 🌼🐝 • MOMMY OF 2 KINGS 👶🏾👶🏾👑
Now before I post this I just wanna say the only reason I'm posting this on here is bc I don't have any other social media & I would rather hear from personal experience rather than just googling🤔 but this is about Afro American hair...but QUESTION: What is a good alternative to relaxers? In other words what can I do to my hair to manage as it grows out the perm? Long story short I've gotten relaxers all my life. Since having a baby my hair hasn't been relaxed in like 4 months 🤔 so now I'm having a lot of breakage like a lot! 😩 Now I'm looking to cut my hair about neck length & just let the perm hair grow out. I've heard of getting blow outs but never tried, don't know too much about them. I'm too chicken to cut off all my hair & just start over, so I just wanna do little by little.. any comments or advice thanks.