Me and my daughters father had mediation so that he can be more consistent in my child's life. We have another one to finalize everything and to get the lawyer and judge to sign and file. For the first year of my daughters life he was not very active in her life which caused a lot of stress for me. I want our parenting split like 60-40... I have her 60 and he have her 40. I'm trying to go back to school and I already work full time. I also miss having me time. I don't mean to sound selfish but it's like I forgot how to love myself and live my life. Has anyone ever did this and what's some suggestions. He has 3 other daughters and it's drama with their mothers so I asked for my child not to be around pop up girls he deal with and I also want to increase child support cause child care is expensive.