Need to vent.

Kit • Army Ranger wife 3/31/14, pharm student, 1st time mommy to be 8/8/15 🎀💞
I might hurt some people feelings with this. I'm sorry in advance. 
But I recently wrote a post about someone taking the shine away from their pregnancy and it's happening again. 
I was telling my pharmacy professor that I had brought my husband a few things to announce that we were having a baby mostly boy things, but recently finding out its a girl I made a joke saying I'm going to have to return them stuff a student jumped in and said "you shouldn't be buying your baby things until you are 7 months pregnant" I looked at her and said "I didn't and don't tell me whn I should buy things for my baby because you can misscarriage at any stage. So you are never safe. Thank you"
She than got ghetto and stared getting in my face. 
I do not believe in that stuff about don't do this don't do that crap. I believe what will be will be. Me living my life in fear of the unknown is just ask worst as living. 
I guess I'm so over people telling the worst of what will happen to my baby. Instead of the good. For example them telling me I will have a c-section.  Because they had one. I'm sorry but your body is not my body. Or telling me I will gain weight or that I'm fat in the face, which I'm not. And they blew up. I'm sorry that happen to you guys but I ate healthy I'm not eating Krystal's and drinking soda and sucking on candy every five minutes. 
Sorry I'm just so over rude ignorant people with their two cents.