I hate my father 😒

My parents are still together (even though they are unhappy together) and I think so highly of my mom because she truly just has a huge heart and would do anything for my siblings & I.  My father on the other hand we haven't gotten along for a while now but WAY more lately. I recently got married about 4 months ago and it was just so awkward to even have him walk me down the aisle or even do the father/daughter dance (which we almost didn't do) and I don't know what it is but the second I get in the same room as him I just become THE biggest bitch and I feel like I can't control it. 

My entire family is sitting on the couch watching the football game and I'm sitting in the kitchen by myself just because he's in the living room and I become in rage when I see him or hear his voice. I know it sounds so harsh but I can't help it. He treats my mom like she's dirt and the worst person in the world because she still loves my siblings & I like we are still little kids. She will do anything for us if we need it even in our 20's and some of us even have our own kids and he thinks she shouldn't help us anymore. He says we constantly just suck the money and life out of him and that's all we ever did. 

Sorry I'm ranting and rambling but I just want to punch him right in the face and my husband just doesn't get it.