kinda of need to vent about this

I went to church with my grandma tonight. I am 20 she is in her 70's. I have been living with her for the last 4 months since she is closer to my college and I have learned a lot about her/her age and how that affects her. Well tonight we went to mass at a different catholic church(we both are). I am so shocked about how the priest acted. He made lots of remarks about deaths and I u sees tans this is life but when 80% of the people there were 70+ you could see the looks and hear the gasps. A young child passed away when is horrible but instead of having us pray he made it more of a story and then after was making jokes not about death but it felt weird. Then at the end their is a woman who is 100 and has pneumonia instead of saying to keep her in our prayers he said this is going to kill her ect. It was the strangest experience I ever had. After church you should feel good not upset about what the priest sai. Has anyone else ever felt this??