I had my baby girl 2 weeks ago and the next.morning she got sent to NICU for jaundice. He refused to have sex with me since 36 weeks which hurt my feelings and still don't know why he refused. Then we got shipped to the NICU and he was very upset and crying I honestly didn't cry because everything happened so fast and so much info was being thrown at me on top of my hemoglobin being severely low. I feel he resents me for not showing emotion about all that when we were in the NICU it was an hour away from our house so we stayed at the Ronald McDonald house we had 2 twin beds so I couldn't even sleep with him I'd get a kiss good night and that was it. Even being home now we don't really touch and I hate it I know we can't have sex but I want so sort of intimacy and for my relationship to go some what back to normal ik it's different having our child now. How do you ladies spend time with you significant others and stay close this is our first child so it's a huge shock for both needing advice thanks ladies