Confirmed early labor but wont help me

My early labor was confirmed this morning after days of begging my midwife to check me. Shes has confirmed im having real contractions at 10mins apart. Its been this way for days and im exhausted and in pain. Im 39 weeks 5 days today and they still think its to early to do a sweep 😭😭 im not dilating very fast at all and it could last days. I see so many people getting sweeps for no reason earlier than me and i cant get one wen its obvious i need one. So stressed ryt now 😤

Update: doctor asked her to do a sweep as she agreed i need to have something to help speed things along as ive been in labor for 4 days. My ctg showed very regular strong contractions for over 1 hour at 10mins apart. Ive had a sweep and hoping this baby comes over the next few days! All i want is to be able to get comfortable and sleep lol pain makes me so grumpy 😂 whos with me on that one