Secret stash?

Question

My husband and I share an account and money seems to go so fast! I just received a monetary gift from a relative and I'm thinking about either cashing it and hiding it or opening a new account.

Ultimately I'm thinking of saving it for a surprise weekend getaway or something.

Thoughts?

Am I wrong to keep it from my husband.

(Btw, he isn't the best with money. He's actually horrible with money.)

Answer

I think it is a good safeguard in general to do this. As a surprise... Not deceitful at all ☺

Answer

I have a "secret" account that my fiancé does not have access to. It's just an account I have to set aside some extra money in. I normally use it for things for the both of us like vacations or things of that nature. I also use it for things he doesn't necessarily want to spend his money on (like my make up or cigarettes). 
The only warning I have is that you're going to want to put his name on the account. You can make him a beneficiary and he can't withdraw from the account or anything. I work at a bank and I've learned that if you are a sole owner on an account and something happens to you the money you have in the account can go to the government.

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That's how my So is.  It's like when the money get in his hand it burns threw so i have a secret stash.  He never has money. But i have to manage other then that I'll be in a bad place depending on him to have my back in any emergency situations. I don't feel that you are wrong at all.

Answer

Nothing wrong with keeping rainy day money a secret, it's good!

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