I've been in a relationship for close to 15 yrs, we have literally known each other since kindergarten. He is the love of my life!!!! In the last 5 yrs, we have gone through 3 major losses; first being my oldest sissy who my spouse was first on scene (skidoo accident) in Jan 2010 then second being my twin in May 2011. We did everything together, she was always over (undetected brain tumor). Finally his mother in Jan 2012 (liver cancer)... He never talks about it really and lately it seems like he's drinking a lot more. He changes from being the best dad in the world to being a very annoying arrogant person. This last round, I'm struggling on why I am still waiting for him to change. I have no one to talk to about this, it hurts my heart. I don't know what to do anymore? I feel like am a 'nag' :(