Would you take your man back after he cheated and lied about it then you found out on your own?

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No.
Me and my husband don't believe divorce should be an option, unless one of us have cheated. That's just the holy grail of NO. 
There's no feeling like being cheated on

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Not if he lied about it. That's like a double betrayal all in one.

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It's not as cut and dry as people make it seem. A boyfriend, yea see ya later.... but a husband, and if there are kids involved, I don't think anyone knows what they would do unless put in that situation. I've told my husband I have a zero tolerance for it, not that I believe he would ever cheat....  hopefully, he never calls my bluff. 
I don't judge anyone for any decision they make when it comes to trying to keep a family together.

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I found my boyfriend on a dating app and he lied about it said he had been hacked. But then I found out the truth when I saw the messages between him and the women on the app. He didnt physically cheat he would make areangements to meet and cancel last minute. But it still hurt just as much. I decided to stay with him and we are going to therapy. I decided to stay bc I recognize how I contributed to the problem and we love eachother. If hes willing to work it out in therapy then Im willing to try it too. These polls are tricky I never thought I would stay with a liar. But, its not a yes or no question, it depends on the circumstances of your situation. And I now have more respect after going through this I am less judgemental of other women that choose to stay. But off course always now your limits!

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Oh, so many factors to consider. A boyfriend? Yes I'd likely leave. My ex cheated and I tried to stay. Eventually I couldn't do it and left for good. My husband and I have been together almost a decade. We have 3 kids. I am so confident he would never cheat that if he did, it would be devastating. He knows my ex cheated. I told him if he cheats I'm gone, because I cannot go through that again. But the truth is, id likely not divorce, at least not right away. Whether he lied, fessed up, level of remorse,  a full blown affair or one night stand, how many women it was, and the type of cheating... it would all play a factor. One thing is for certain, I wouldn't navigate those waters alone. Therapy is necessary. Therapy for a long time. I wouldn't consider staying without it.

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NO NO NO NOPE NEVER NO.