Pregnancy blues?

Question

I'm 4 months pregnant, with a seven year old as well. Husband is a pretty social guy, which I never had an issue with beforehand. He works hard and deserves some downtime. I trust him 100% and am not at all the controlling type.

Well as of late my hormones have not taken a liking to his frequent outings/drunken homecomings. Not to mention he's a grouch/negligent when hungover the next day.
I get he's trying to let loose while he still can, but it's super frustrating when it's literally every weekend, and some weekdays when he has free time..while we're at home collecting dust.

Anyone else deal with these feelings of prenatal isolation/anxiety/depression while husband is being care freakin' free? How do I fix this without being a nag?

Answer

Tell him to grow up!! He has a family, his days of going out and drunken escapades should be rare at this point. There are plenty of other actives he can do to blow of steam and hang out with his friends that don't require him getting shit faced. And you being assertive about this does not make you a nag, it makes you a parent. He's setting a bad example for your 7 year old. And a married man has no business frequenting bars and getting drunk. Tell him if he wants to blow of steam...get a gym membership and do something constructive with his time, and rather than investing time and money into wrecking his health he should be bettering his health for his family.

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