Fiancée changed his mind?

Question

We havnt even been trying all the way and not even for 5 months! I'm so upset I just was to see those two pretty lines and now he doesn't want to try he says If it happens it happens...I'm so devastated!

Answer

Well he broke up with me so I guess there no point every trying..

Answer

My BF wanted to stop ttc for a bit and it was devistating. But he explained that it was due to hating seeing me so upset every time AF arrived. He said he'd rather me be happy and us still have our amazing relationship than it all go out the window while ttc! Sometimes boys mean well but don't explain what their thinking or why they do what they do. Give it some time and bring it up again. In the meantime you can still bd, which still gives you the chance if getting your well deserved BFP!! Good luck xx

Answer

He might just mean that he doesn't want the stress of it all but would be happy if you got pregnant :) he might be happy to continue without contraception just not trying as hard? Some men are like that! My boyfriend completely said no and then recently changed his mind and started saving like mad and he is really into it suddenly which is a bit of a shock! Good luck girl xx

Answer

Maybe he's not totally ready. He may have thought he was, but has since re-evaluated and found he wasn't. You can force him to want it. Also maybe you were too...aggressive (sorry I lacked a better word) and he was feeling too much pressure. You should have a sit down and explain how you feel and how devastating you've found why he's said. See if you can reach a compromise.

Answer

Had the exact same with my dh. It got to the extent we couldn't bd coz it was too much pressure so now after 13months we've decided what's for us won't go past us and If it happens then great

Answer

I think he's trying to say in a nice way that you guys should just have sexy and not make it seem like a chore.. Maybe it's stressful on both of you and he doesn't wanna affect the relationship. Me are so much more calm. My fiancé is just like if it happens it happens..

Answer

Sounds like you two are just starting your lives together. Maybe he wants to spend dometime with you before having kids.

Answer

I don't think men really understand since they are not te ones it happens to directly. They don't understand that "if it happens, it happens" sometimes doesn't work. :(

Fiancée changed his mind?

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey