I blame birth control!!!

I was in the pill after I had my first baby! I was in it for 3 months and now I've been trying to get prego for 9 months and still nothing! My cycles are just beginning to even out but I blame birth control!!!  Grrrrrr I know 9 months is nothing compared to some ppl but it's frustrating knowing I could have just used a condom for 3 months and been able to get prego right away when I wanted to!