Abuse

He didn't start out being emotionally abusive, its been two almost three years. It started with being impatient with others, then cursing them out, then it started in on me. Everything is about the world attacking him. I know the day we split is impending. But I worry maybe its something that happened...he has a shrink, should I send him a email and explain what's going on with my bf? I know it could ruin us forever. But the way he's acting we don't have forever. So in a last ditch effort should I risk telling his shrink? Or should I wait for things to smooth over? Its been six months. ~H