Grinds my gears

Me and my husband have postponed ttc a baby for now until we save some money for our ivf treatment ! But it grinds my gears and( I know it's not Thier fault we suffer from infertility ,) but it grinds my gears of people who have been together for less the 6 months and there already bring a child into this world!😖 bringing a child into this world is a big commitment and people bring kids into this world with out thinking twice it's not a puppy it's a child !