I am so tired of talking about things that bother me and having my SO get mad and start a fight about it and it always ends with me wanting to cry and him not talking to me. I am so tired of it.

It's always because he does something that bothers me or upsets me or makes me feel like I have no say in anything. And of course he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong so he gets super defensive and then usually tells me it's stupid and it doesn't matter and then he over reacts like saying o well we just won't do this (whatever were fighting about) anymore.

Sometimes I feel like I just have to agree with whatever he says. And keep my feelings to myself.

I'm so tired of feeling this way and I'm tired of fighting.

I love him so much but I just don't know what to do.