First time expecting mother and feeling annoyed and overwhelmed by other "experienced" mothers

This is my first time being pregnant and I am super excited and feel calm about the idea of having a child and taking caring of a child I'm already half way through my pregnancy and although I know and expect taking care of a child to be difficult I don't feel overwhelmed by it I feel like I am completely capable of doing so and I also feel fairly prepared despite this being my first child. However I have been feeling incredibly irritated by other older moms some who have multiple children and some in which all their children are already all grown up. I feel like "more experienced" mothers like to tell me what they think I should get for the baby or how I should do this or that, or how they wish I was having a boy or a girl and nonsense things like boys are easier and others saying girls are easier which in reality there is no truth to either it's just a matter of personal experience and hearing all these different things feels both frustrating and overbearing. I wish that experienced moms could remember what being pregnant for the first time felt like and what having your first child feels like, it's very personal and an individual experience for everyone. This has become really overwhelming for me because I kind of just want to enjoy my pregnancy and learn myself what works and what doesn't like everyone else and I wish that people in my life would give me the space to do so and have my own journey. I understand people are trying to help but it's still very annoying and is making me feel overwhelmed with having a baby which is something I since before people knowing felt pretty comfortable about. Does anyone else have these feelings?