My mil has barely made an effort to see my son since he was born in October and now is suddenly claiming she will be coming over 3x a week to see him! To me that seems extreme! I know it seems like my mom is here a lot but it's really only once every week or two unless I need her here. How do I nicely tell my mil that she is going overboard? I can't have her here that often for multiple reasons, one being that I straight up just can't handle her for more than 10 minutes at a time..I also refuse to sit around the house so she can see my son when I have shit to do! How should I handle this?!