So my husband and I are already arguing and we just found out we are expecting ha ha. He wants to find out the sex and I don't. The reason is I don't want to end up with "gender specific" toys and clothes. Gender behavior is not biological. People treat a girl differently from a boy because of social stereotypes. I want my baby to grow up to be whatever they want and not feel like they have act a certain way because they are a boy or a girl. I think the first start to allowing my baby to define himself (or herself) is to have gender neutral stuff. Thoughts?