My mom won't let me off birth control

I'm 17 and have been on birth control since I was 14. I had the Mirena IUD for awhile, then NuvaRing, and now pills. All have given me bad side effects. I'm sexually active but my hormones are so out of wack and it's making me feel like crap. I really just want to rely on condoms and pulling out, which I always do as it is, and spermicide. What do I do? 😩